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Don’t allow John Bealsey to get out of prison for killing my sister


My name is Saytue Saye and I’m the owner of Mixture of Arts Radio and this blog. If you follow my blog, then you know I post a lot of fun stuff stuff from my radio show and also interested topics.

This topic however is on a more serious note. My sister Sylvia Saye was stabbed and killed by her ex boyfriend John Beasley on December 30, 2003. My sister did not deserve to die the way she did. She was one of the most friendly, fun, loving, respectful, caring, and unselfish person anyone can ever meet and know. Everyone loved her.

She went to college at Valdosta State for nursing. In 2001, she came home for a break and she met “John Beasley”. After that, things went downhill.

To make a long story short, she moved to Heinsville Ga to live with him, and that’s when the abuse started. She had her daughter in 2002. In October pf 2003, she came back home to her family because she was finally fed up.

He followed her. She would tell me she was scared because she knew he wanted to harm her. But you know what they say about death. You can see it coming and there is no way to stop it.

I knew he was going to hurt her, actually I was protecting her. How do I know and how did I protect her? (this requires an exclusive interview or a book). All I know is that the day before John stabbed my sister, she was protected that night he came to the house drunk and high off cocaine because of me. Actually she was protected every time I was with her, until December 30th, the first time I wasn’t with her. I feel like things happen for a reason, and it wasn’t meant for me to be there to save her, she had to save herself this time.

John ended up stabbing my sister in the face, arms, stomach, and neck. He cut her spinal cord in half at C1. She was paralysed and could not eat or breathe on her own.

She suffered for 4 months…… she died on April Fools Day 2004.

Now, 10 years later, my family and I have to attend “Victims Visitors Day”  and I’m afraid he might be getting out. And the worst thing is that her daughter lives with his sister. How crazy is that?

If you are reading this, please sign my petition to keep John Beasley in prison.

Tips On How to Quit Smoking Now

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Recently, I did a show on how to quit smoking. If you are really trying to quit smoking, I give you steps on how to quit your smoking habit. You Ismoking is bad. I know smoking is discusting. We know smoking cigarettes is not good for your health and can kill, so why take it serious about stopping this habit.

Listen to this episode of mixture of arts ans quit smoking today.

Urban Super Hero DangerMan Saves Children Lives

If you haven’t heard about DangerMan, the urban superhero, you need to definitely open your ears and know about him. First of all, who was your favorite superhero as a child? Was it X- Man, BatMan, or Spiderman? True, all of these Superheroi’s are fiction, but you know what, DangerMan is a real life Superhero.

Meet him on Mixture of Arts Tonight

DangerMan the Urbab Superhero is a real Superhero that helps fight childhood obesity and illiteracy & supports healthy and safe lifestyle choices. If this is not a hero for children, than I don’t know who is. And he’s been doing this since 1998.

I will strongly suggest you learn more about DangerMan in my in depth article as well as listen to an exclusive interview I will have tomorrow at 1am EST.

The Kidnapper That Isn’t Smarter Than a 3rd Grader and Hip Hop TV CEO Marcus Gray

If it’s one thing I’m afraid of, it will have to be child kidnappers. I never was afraid of them, until I had children of my own. And even though I’ve done some real dangerous thing in my lifetime that could’ve caused me to get abducted, I’m so glad God is always blessing me.

Now, here is a story with a happy ending and apparently this child kindnapper is not smarter than a 3rd grader.

Did ya’ll hear about the 9 year old girl Calysta Cordova, who outsmarted her kidnapper last week? Her mother reported her missing on Thurday afternoon when she was 9 minutes late to come home after school.

Authoritiestrongly believe that Calysta waadbucted by 29-year-old suspect Jose Garcia when the car broke down. Someone dove them to a circle K convience store, and the little girl ran inside, asked for a phone to call her uncle and she ended up calling the police.

When Garcia entered the store, Calysta refused to go anywhere with him, yelling, “I’m not going anywhere with you. I’m waiting right here for my momma.” After that, he looked at one of the eye witnesses and ran off.

Calysta said that her strength came from her daddy. Her daddy always told her to stand up for herself.

“She had two black eyes, bruises on her cheek”. Garcia was found at a bus stop in downtown Colorado Springs, about 7.5 miles south of the convenience store where they had been dropped off.

Hip Hop TV Show- Comcast Xfinity CH. 29 Every Friday

Hip Hop TV Show- Comcast Xfinity CH. 29 Every Friday

Also, Marcus “HHTV” Gray will be a featured guest on Mixture of Arts tonight. He is the CEO and director of Hip Hop TV which is a multi-media Brand specializing in all Youth entertainment, content, lifestyle & culture. The show is based in ATL, Africa, California, NeW York, Florida, and South America. This diverse show airs on Comcast Xfinity channel 29 every Friday midnight.

Make sure you tune in at 1am tonight!

HHTVonline Tv Show – ep2 from HHTVonline on Vimeo.

Emotional Manipulation Tactics – Do You Know on Mixture of Arts

Do you know emotional manipulation tactics? When we first start dating, the signs of a emotional manipulator are almost always unnoticable. After a while, certain emotions that we feel does not feel like our own and we tend to feel stupid, sad, or angry. Well, that is how the manipulator wants it and does not care how we feel.

Keep reading!

What are some emotional manipulation tactics?

1. positive reinforcement – this includes praise, too much charm, too much sympathy (crocodile tears), too much apologizing; money, approval, gifts; attention, fake laugh or smile; public recognition.

2. negative reinforcement – this includes nagging, screaming, the silent treatment, intimidation, threats, swearing, emotional blackmail, playing the guilty game,and crying.

3. intermittent or partial reinforcement – Partial or intermittent negative reinforcement canplay a part of fear and doubt.

You see, the manipulator does not care about your feelings. They will do whatever it takes to win and get over. I often wonder why they act out such behavior. It must be a self-esteem issue. Let’s talk!

5/17/2011 at 1am est……Mixture of Arts with Saytue Saye

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